Listen to the both side.

Well, well, well. I know it really has been awhile.
And I am pretty sure no one would even bother to come here to check if this blog is updated or not.
But anyway, I dont think I will still update the blog frequently, I will just write, whenever I want to :).

Back to the topic - Listen to the both side.

These days, I think I have put too much effort on my "this year's plan" till negatively affecting my own life.
Yes, my life does include friends.

In the past, I made friends to whom I think it's only worth to.
However since I enrolled myself in ACCA (probably just because I was alone for all the time) , I think it's necessary to make any friends regardless they are bad or good.

You see, I actually reclassify my friends into different classes.
1) True friends
2) Just friends
3) Useful friends
4) Friends at the front, enemy at the back.
5) Friends that I have no choice to make.

Last year (2011), I made some new friends. They were cool, kind and fun to be with.
I definitely make them my true and good friends type.
At the end of the year, it wasnt the same anymore.
I thought maybe it was just because of the stress and tension from the exam.
It will be back like before after the exam.

Unfortunately, I was wrong.
The situation didnt bounce back to how it was.
And something happened among those so called friends which made the situation went from bad to worse.
The "something" was private so I dont think it's good to expose it here.
That time , I listened to only one side of the story and decided on the side I should stand.

Time past to after Chinese New Year.
Things still dont go well but worse.
This time I feel like I am being neglected.
I admit I am busy with my work. But I was working last year too.
That dont make any sense isn't it ?

Hmm ...
Well, there is this one guy, I will just call him , B.
He was one of my so called good friend in the past.
Well, he is the one who has changed the most.
Before, whenever there is something, I will surely be invited but not again after we all came back to Kuching after the Chinese New Year.

He doesnt how we know him in the past.
But thanks to that, I see him clearier than before.
I would say, he is a type that , make friend to you when he needed you only.
But!! Surprisingly, he never treat the girls same way like how we guys are treated.
That, shows something isn't ?

And like I mentioned just now, "something" happened among them, right?
Today I finally heard the other side of the story and realise how stupid I am to judge with only one side of the things I heard.
Yes, things happened between the B and one the friend.

Well, I guess I learnt something today. :0
Always do listen to the both side first before you make any judgement and decide which side you should stand.
Good or bad, listen first.

And between me and B , I am still trying to bear with it and act as nice as I could.
If things doesn't get any better, he will go in my 3rd category of "friends"
Who CARES I will be alone again or not.

... Dahh-h?

"To be or not to be, that's the question."

"Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer."

"E=mc2"

bla bla bla bla bla...

Just wasting some time here while waiting for my friends asking me out for a dinner.
It has really been a long time since I typed a word here.
Well, the feeling is still great with those moving fingers on the keyboards pressing on the buttons creating those sounds.
Only that this time, I just can't bluntly type any words in mind :P

I am exhausted but pretty much satisfied.
The exam is just a week far from now and I am still busy with my current audit work.
But at least all the extra time has been filled up, in a good way :D.
Time of freedom is definitely restricted, which mean lesser or almost no time to play since I have to juggle from work to study :(
But at least, none are wasted like before.

Human will learn to appreciate when things get lesser or gone.
That's what I am experience right now.
I've been trying to squeeze as much time as I could since I start to work.
As you know, for work, studies, rest and even playing :D.
Yes, playing. I am not sure if I've ever mentioned in here before, one my principle would be, if you worked hard, then played hard! haha!
Dont feel like missing out any fun event with my friends and recently I am craze for badminton.
I am originally a sportsman, what I mean is a guy who loves to sport and badminton is one of my favourite.

Life is meant to be enjoyed - Love the statement and you should too.
Experience what you hate, know what you love, enjoy what you live, then forget what you hate :)

Phone rings! It's time to fill up my stomach.
Order me a horse! =X

An urge to write

"Sometimes know nothing is better than know everything"
That statement seems to be very popular among my friend's lists in the Facebook these days.
Old words, old fact, old knowledge.
But I gotta admit that I do agree with this.
Sometimes,.. just sometimes.

Human's curiosity is not meant to be underestimated.
Like how the Eve was cheated by the Evil to eat the apple on the tree then knowing the shamefulness in the world.
Everything was just out of the curiosity.
Especially if you care.. it hurts.

ARhhhh! Anyway, year 2011 is going to be over.
I gonna do something for myself :)
A big plan for turning everything around in the year 2012.
It's going to be a new Liongteck! HAH!!!!

RE: To one of the many stars

I think I found a person who is even more difficult to be served.
If it's because of the clashing of opinions or thought then I have got nothing to say but who decide that?
I would say, no, there's nothing wrong in expressing how you feel.
You may feel that you are being see-through by other people or feel offended but that's your point of view.
How bout others??

There are countless type of people in the world.
I actually learnt that some people are really willing to help without any payback.
Some people do really care about how the people around him or her feel regarding their act.
You may have offended them for not telling them that they may have hurt your feeling until they found out someday later after done the same thing for many times.
What do you think may happen in the end? - What kind of situation you may put them in?
Worst still , with your accumulated hate and anger, you may have leave him or her for a reason that you yourself may not even know how to tell.
I tell you, you don't know how and I bet you dont even know yourself in the end too.

In my thought, why not? just be straight and tell them. If they care, you know what to do. If no, I don't think you wont be in any loss as well.
For yours and theirs own sake.

If you guys think I am talking about me, think again.
I have a lot of stories on my own but I've decided to lock them out from here a long time.
Like what my cousin had told me once, "Mind your own business".
You can't serve everyone in the world, how the others think that their own business.
I do care how the others think of me too but I know I am changing.
There's always a theory on how you wanna live. That's called the science of life.
I know you don't like to burden somebody else like I do.
For me, I categorised people around me.
Families, true friends, friends and by-passer.

Who doesn't want to be loved?
Sometimes I may hold back on my true friends and definitely the friends and the by-passers but never on families.
I always want them to dig into me and let them know that I want to be loved and I love them as well.

Oh, btw, for the note, I always treat my love one as a part of me and that would means family :)

First of all, yeah~ I am back to my own hometown already.
Seriously speaking, I dont feel as excited as I thought I should be.
Too many things happened around me in the past few months.
Too many things need to be handled and accepted and I expect more coming in the future.

I think if it's not because of the tiredness, i might have just lost the sense of the excitement already :)
Since the day I'm back here, I've been trying very hard to make myself happy.
I did everything I could, I avoid everything I should.
No matter how hard I forced a smile on my face, it just doesnt feel right.

That's the reason when I don't update my blog at all :)
Because since when I've decided to come back here, there is a little determination of mine said that maybe I shouldnt let the others see how weak I am anymore.
Maybe I should not write anything sad here anymore.
It doesn't matter if a zero wears a hero's costume, what does matter is no one can see what is inside.
But I'm a Gemini, what else can I say?
When things get unbearable, I still choose to talk to the machine.

X-MEN:First Class

Has any of you watched this yet?

For God sake, go and watch this.

This is awesome!!!

If I have 3 thumbs, I definitely would raise 3 of them up!!

X-MEN : First Class.

Like how the movie is named, it's about the first class or the first generation of the X-Men.

Don't understand? How bout this, it's about when the physic man , Professor X and the super villain magnet man, Magneto when they were still teenager?

That's when the Professor X(Charles Xavier) and Magneto(Erik Lehnsherr) started to gather every mutants in the world and work together to prevent the Nuclear War.

That's before the Magneto went bad and the Professor X went bald =X. Hehe~

You know what I think? I think the real villain are the human in there. Agree?

I watched the movie last Saturday.

It's far far far far FARRR better than I expected.

You see, there is one of my friend think that the movie wont be any good since it was about the past and bla bla bla ..

At first I don't think like he did, but you know in the end, more or less you will get affected by your friend's words.

So honestly, part of my mind told me that, maybe I can see just get myself a DVD and watch it at home instead of wasting the money in the cinema.

Tell you what, LUCKILY I DID NOT DO SO!! Phew, I am about to miss one wonderful date with an awesome movie in the cinema ok??!!

I swear I will never make a pass on any Marvel movie ever again!!

I love those super heroes. I mean who doesn't??

Tell me, you never think of how nice it would be if you have those super powers?

I love every hero in the Marvel.

Spiderman, Batman, Superman, Ironman, The Incredible Hulk and etc.

Does anyone still remember The Flash? The fastest hero among them? LOL.

The Green Lantern will be released in this month!! And the Captain America will be on the coming July.

Who is going with me??!! You buy me the ticket and I can get you popcorn. :P

Happy Duan Wu Jie

Yeap~ Today is the actual day of the Duan Wu Jie which I called Zhong Zhi Jie ( aka Dumpling Day if direct translated from the Chinese).
I wonder what is it called in English, Dragon Boat Festival perhaps? I'm not sure. LOL!!
Anyway, let's stick to the Dumpling Day then. :P

Like how it is called, today is the day we Chinese eat dumpling or know as zhong zhi in Chinese.

Taken from the Google

This is how the inside looks like (taken from the Google)

Ask me if I like it? Hmmm, I would say yes and no. HAHA!!
Why? When I was a kid, I had some of them which the taste were so superb that still making me drop my saliva even by think of it.
However, after that I don't think I had any which is as nice as that one again.
Well, like how some people said, don't ever try to sit in a Mercedes cause you won't like to drive your own Perodua Kenari again. Now, got what I mean ?
I've tasted the best dumpling in the world before, so I wont say any other dumplings are good if the taste is not comparable to the one I had. :P
But of course I still had some for the past years because I believe you have to do what should we do in order to celebrate the occasion. :D
Because it makes me feel that I am a part of the celebration.

Like new clothes and firecrakers for the Chinese New Year, so, dumplings for the Dumpling days ^^.

Oh ya, if I am not mistaken, some places celebrate the day by organizing the dragon boat racing.

Taken from the Google

I've never seen any before but honestly to tell you guys, I don't really have any interest in it. = /

If my memory serves me right, I think when I was still a kid there was once or maybe few times the racing were organized in my hometown, Sibu.

I didn't get to see any of them since there were to many people were watching. LOL!

I was told by my sis that, the Singaporean celebrate the day by throwing the dumpling into the river.

Wanna know why? Let me tell you.

There was once a person called Qu Yuan from China who was wrongly accused of being a traitor who had betrayed his country.

Then he committed suicide by jumping into the deep river to prove his own innocence.

In order to prevent the fishes in the river to eat away the corpse, the villagers throw the dumplings into the river in hoping that the fishes would eat the dumpling instead.

And the tradition continued till this day in some places :).

He must be really a kind person eh?

I was told the story by someone I forgot who but I got the name by Googling it ( now you see how useful is the Google) , HEHE!

Anyway, I don't think I will be having any dumpling this year :(.

I am not going back to be reunited with my families for today.

BECAUSE I STILL HAVE AN EXAM TO ATTEND ON THIS NOON!!Arghh! Pressure! pressure whenever I think about this.

Don't ask me how is my revision already and obviously I am taking a short break from it to write something about the day.

I think it's time :(, I can already hear the bells are ringing like reminding me that the break is over. SADDD!!!

Anyway, Happy Duan Wu Jie guys and girls :)

Have a happy one, my families, beloved friends and of course you too, whoever are reading my this.

Love you, Baby Tiong.