Listen to the both side.

Well, well, well. I know it really has been awhile.
And I am pretty sure no one would even bother to come here to check if this blog is updated or not.
But anyway, I dont think I will still update the blog frequently, I will just write, whenever I want to :).

Back to the topic - Listen to the both side.

These days, I think I have put too much effort on my "this year's plan" till negatively affecting my own life.
Yes, my life does include friends.

In the past, I made friends to whom I think it's only worth to.
However since I enrolled myself in ACCA (probably just because I was alone for all the time) , I think it's necessary to make any friends regardless they are bad or good.

You see, I actually reclassify my friends into different classes.
1) True friends
2) Just friends
3) Useful friends
4) Friends at the front, enemy at the back.
5) Friends that I have no choice to make.

Last year (2011), I made some new friends. They were cool, kind and fun to be with.
I definitely make them my true and good friends type.
At the end of the year, it wasnt the same anymore.
I thought maybe it was just because of the stress and tension from the exam.
It will be back like before after the exam.

Unfortunately, I was wrong.
The situation didnt bounce back to how it was.
And something happened among those so called friends which made the situation went from bad to worse.
The "something" was private so I dont think it's good to expose it here.
That time , I listened to only one side of the story and decided on the side I should stand.

Time past to after Chinese New Year.
Things still dont go well but worse.
This time I feel like I am being neglected.
I admit I am busy with my work. But I was working last year too.
That dont make any sense isn't it ?

Hmm ...
Well, there is this one guy, I will just call him , B.
He was one of my so called good friend in the past.
Well, he is the one who has changed the most.
Before, whenever there is something, I will surely be invited but not again after we all came back to Kuching after the Chinese New Year.

He doesnt how we know him in the past.
But thanks to that, I see him clearier than before.
I would say, he is a type that , make friend to you when he needed you only.
But!! Surprisingly, he never treat the girls same way like how we guys are treated.
That, shows something isn't ?

And like I mentioned just now, "something" happened among them, right?
Today I finally heard the other side of the story and realise how stupid I am to judge with only one side of the things I heard.
Yes, things happened between the B and one the friend.

Well, I guess I learnt something today. :0
Always do listen to the both side first before you make any judgement and decide which side you should stand.
Good or bad, listen first.

And between me and B , I am still trying to bear with it and act as nice as I could.
If things doesn't get any better, he will go in my 3rd category of "friends"
Who CARES I will be alone again or not.